Today, Mulan officially became part of the family. I’m so happy! She and Mochi are still a bit avoidant with each other but slow and steady is how the girls roll haha. And with me they’re both so chill and affectionate, like Mochi, Mulan adopted me immediately. I struck gold with these two.
forever home
2025.11.29and this is 46
2025.11.25It was my birthday yesterday. A day I typically don’t really approach with any special anticipation.
But yesterday became different.
Yesterday became a celebration of friendship, and love, and gratitude, beyond anything I could ever have expected. Yesterday was a reminder that I am surrounded by beautiful souls who love me, who say it aloud and show it, and it was wonderful and heartwarming and emotional.
Yesterday was a birthday that I will remember for years to come. A day that reminded me that I should listen to my wonderful chosen family, and welcome and embrace their love, instead of listening to my thoughts.
It was a reminder, not just of how people see me, but also of how I see and appreciate them back, and I made sure to tell them as such unequivocally.
I love my tribe. I’m illuminated by their light. Always. ♥️
4 years
2025.11.15Ups. Downs. Ebbs. Flows.
Moments in time
of joyful light and deep darkness.
But not once did I look back
And wish I hadn’t leaped.
hello, sun
2025.11.11I’m still grieving stillborn futures
That weren’t meant to be
But this morning I felt the warm sun on my face
And the fresh air in my lungs
And for a fleeting moment
I was grateful 🤍
it’s been a good run
2025.11.1042 performances, 40 in the past 11 months alone, seven of them internationally in Lisbon and Edinburgh. And appearances at not one, but two Fringes, Edinburgh’s and Barcelona’s. What a ride.
It’s nice to leave on a high.
I’ll keep going to stand up shows of course, and I might (might) accept the occasional invite, but from now on, my next stage appearances will be more scarce and for other things. I love my Choir group, and my Musical Theater experience has been incredibly precious, and I will continue both going into 2026.
I’m so immensely grateful. I’m not ending up 2025 on as high a note as I might have hoped, but there has been undeniable progress, and it’s priceless.