TDoV

2025.03.31

When I go out
Visibly fem
Visibly queer
I don’t care that you clock me
I don’t do it so you can side-eye and sneer
I don’t do it so you can wonder
what’s in my pants or who I sleep with
I don’t do it to turn your kids gay or trans
I do it for my queer siblings still closeted
I do it for our queer kids who are growing up afraid
in a world hostile to them
I do it so they know that I’m here for them
That I got their back
And there is hope and love and community
Even when the world tells you there isn’t
I’m telling them “you’re safe with me”

And if it bothers you?
Kindly go fuck yourself
And get out of my way

#transdayofvisibility 🏳️‍⚧️

changing winds

2025.03.20

It’s becoming clearer every day that a change of tack is necessary. So let’s make it happen.

I’m putting comedy on hold for now. My last show was an absolute blast and I’m leaving on this high, until further notice. I’m changing some things about my appearance (which may or may not be an attempt at fending off depression 👀 don’t ask). And I’m gonna be back in earnest to make TCG happen by the end of year.

You don’t complain about the wind, you just adjust the sails.